What I look for in a woman

(Intelligence) I believe with education a better choice of words can be used when angry. And a more clear understanding of the price we pay for love each day comes with understanding love and the things we must do to have it in our life.

(Respect) We need to think what we say before saying it. And saying it where respect is not lost. “I don’t have to growl like a lion to be heard. I can how ever say it nicely.”

(Wife) A woman that will give trust and love as received and know always where the bed she sleeps in is. Gives 100 % of her love as well as receive it. Know the vows of marriage and live by them. “For better or worse does not mean that’s how hard you fight in court”.

(Mother) A very important key in what I would love to find. Not for my boys. I am father and mother. Children may be wanted in a relationship, and many times I see, mothers are not ready to be mothers as well as fathers not ready to be fathers (I am one of the READY FATHERS). I am a father and was responsible to be one before I was one. And I never let my kids down.

(Friend) A woman who will tell me how she feels. I want to know, how the most important person in my life feels. Her feelings do matter in this world. And a true friend tells all. I cannot learn about the person in my life, if I don’t know how she feels about life or herself in it.

(Family Oriented) A woman that knows there is time for everything, but there has to be time for family. When I do have my boys? I like doing things with them as well as with the woman in my life. I do have values that my parents taught me. These are a few.

Always eat together as a family.

Always remember your kids when doing fun things

Always make time without an excuse to spend time as a family.

Always do things as a family, the chain is much stronger.  

Always trust in your family and spend every moment you can while you have life.

(Trust)   Trust to me is the seed of love, without it? There cannot be love, let alone friendship, or anything. She would question me with respect and ask anything she wants… As long as asked and not attacked. There are many women as well as men that lack giving trust because of there past. But never forget, you cannot compare a new relationship to anyone’s past. In most cases? A new relationship means NEW.

(Honesty) I always want the truth. Even if it will hurt me. Because I don’t like being in a dark room without really knowing how she feel about me. But I expect the same honesty I give in a relationship. We are not perfect and if one or the other feels something is wrong? Best to talk to each.

A lot to ask for huh? Well women ask for as much but forget we also want too.

I am tired of women who say to me?

"I want an honest man" Never ask for something you yourself cannot give. Honesty is a two sided table.

"I want a faith full man" I have seen so many times women talking to others men.

"I want someone to accept me" A mutual feeling, accept me for the person I am.

She wants me to accept her but she wants me to cut my pony tail, choose a different song… and paint my world her color. “TO love me you must accept everything around me” (I wrote that 1992)

"I don’t want a player!" I have met some of the worst players in my life and yet they all have said the same thing about not wanting one.

"If you love me you will change" I hate it when love is challenged in that form of way. Never will I go into a relationship with a woman that I feel needs changes. We are who we are and live as we live, I am not anyone to judge you as you are. If I cannot love you? Then should not be with you.

I hope this gives you an understanding of what I look for in a woman etc… If I offended anyone? I am truly sorry. I am honest and wont change for anyone. I am not perfect and can even find many of my flaws without help. But I also have a heart and it bleeds for these things in my life.

Henry/Enrique

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